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This though thas been bouncing around my mind and tonight was just an exemplery ecample of it so why not share it with you:
Chinese people are incredible nice, but they are not thoughtful.
Tonight I tought an english clas and afterwords I went and had some beers with one of the students. Some dude in his thirties. He was very nice. He wanted to be my friend very much. He paid for everything, and was constantly asking if I was ok. The problem was he was incredably fucking annoying. When he first sw me I was talking to some other friends and he came up and tried to pull me away, I’m talkin gto my friends don’t interuppt me and don’t fucking touch me! All throughout the night he kept trying to force beers and food on me. To him, “help yourself” means “you must eat and drink until you puke.” I tried to give signs that he was pissing me off, for example, when he shoved some chopsticks in my face and told me to “eat, eat” and wouldn’t take them away after I ignored them. I grabbed them quickly and slammed them down angrily on the table. But he just luahged when he did this.
In fact he was always staring at me with this stupid grin on his facce. It’s the same stupid grin onthe faces of all the dumbass’s who say “Halooo” to me every day. I hate that grin.
I don’t want to sound bitter, and it the above statements don’t apply to all chinese people, but the people who it does apply to can ruin your whole night. This guy’s wife is very nice. I wouldn’t mind talking to her for a bit, but it is impossible when the fucker is always shoving his beer in my face saying “cheers, cheers.” One of my german friends was there and he was being even more annoyed, he said he wouldn’t come back to the bar we were at if this guy was there too.
This is what I mean when I say Chinese people aren’t thoughtful (yes I know what a gross generalization that is). A;; this guy wanted to do was to make some foreign friends and have us feel happy in his country, but by his actions he accomplished the opposite. I would be intersted to know if chinese people felt this annoyed with certain american customs. Cause if they are I am going to try my best to educate americans to stop being annoying. I’m not really sure what I can help the Chinese.